Sunday, August 14, 2011

You say you're bitter at someone

You say you're bitter at someone and you are but the real reason isn't what you're making it out to be.

Someone decided to tell you something about a person you loved because they were jealous and hard hearted. Some folks can't stand seeing other folks get  along with someone they haven't seen in a long time OR never met before. So, they make up a story - a big lie.

Because no one on this earth is without sin and because some sin more often than others, it's easy to be tricked into hating a person with an absurd story, but people believe these things, they fall for it.

Some folks never grow up AND some folks never OWN UP to what THEY'VE done in their lives so out of guilt and shame they point the finger at someone else hoping you'll never find out what THEY did - the terrible things that they did because you love them as well. So a plan is hatched and the smoke screen is set in place.

Truthfully, you're not bitter by what you were told because you KNOW this person you haven't seen in a long time or have just met for the first time a while ago AND have been acquianted on a regular basis. In your heart of hearts you can see, for yourself, what the deal is. Do you know why you're bitter?

You're bitter because deep down you don't believe this story of betrayal AND you wish you were never told this story. You wish you'd never been told this far fetched lie and now you're bitter about it but your loyalties are elsewhere and so you turn your back and walk away even after you asked to have things explained by the accused. You turn your back on the person who TRUELLY loves you. This is a tragedy of life.

Now, years later and because you cannot control your OWN BEHAVIOR and people are talking about YOU, well, you have to continue the tradition of masking the guilt, shame and remorse by putting the focus elsewhere - it's what you learned, it's what you were taught AND it's WRONG!

But because people aren't stupid and most folks don't value the nonsensical manner of treatment you accord others THEY see through you! And I'm sorry to have to tell you that the little circle of friends you do have who do the same thing, well, that's about ALL you got and that's even more sad. Worst of all is if you don't change YOUR ways you pass these less than humane traits onto YOUR children. BUT if you do change then you'll HAVE to face the TRUTH, admit the TRUTH, won't you?

AND if YOU have done something so terrible AND it's true then you did it then YOU will have a lot of explaining to do, won't you?

If a person turned you against another person and somewhere deep down you feel there's something just not right but you won't admit it, I feel sorry for you.

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